In my previous post, “Like the Palm Tree by Brandy Luna,” I shared how life, much like a palm tree, bends but never breaks—how storms may shake us, yet we still stand tall, rooted in faith and hope.
But lately, I’ve been living between two worlds—the world of survival and the world of becoming. There are days I wake up full of dreams, ready to take bold steps toward the life I envision… and other days when even getting out of bed feels like climbing a mountain. You start to wonder, Am I still on the right path? Am I still becoming who I’m meant to be?
Here in Japan, where everything moves with quiet perfection and discipline, I sometimes feel like a wandering soul trying to find rhythm in a world that never slows down. One day you’re strong, the next day you’re weeping while doing the laundry, unsure how to keep going. You go through your errands but return home feeling empty, stretched too thin—like life is asking you to shed the final layer of who you used to be.
Yet, when life feels unbearably heavy, something inside you whispers, Don’t give up. And somehow, in the middle of all the noise, the right book finds its way into your hands.
For me, that book was “Inspired Destiny: Living a Fulfilling and Purposeful Life” by Dr. John F. Demartini — a powerful reminder that there is divine order in everything we go through, and that the life we dream of is not a coincidence… It’s a calling.
This book arrived at a time when my faith in myself was fading. But its words became the light I needed — guiding me back to the truth that fulfillment isn’t about escaping your struggles, but understanding that even your challenges are part of your divine design.
The Heart of “Inspired Destiny” — Living a Life That Matters
Dr. Demartini teaches that every human being has a unique purpose — a destiny that inspires them from within. But to live it fully, we must align our daily life with what truly matters to us — our highest values.
He explains that when we live according to our highest values, we feel alive, driven, and authentic. But when we live by what others expect of us, we experience frustration, fatigue, and emptiness.
As a foreigner in Japan, this truth hit me deeply. There are so many expectations here — to blend in, to work hard, to appear “okay.” Yet, deep inside, I’ve always longed to live a life that feels true to who I am. Reading Inspired Destiny reminded me that fulfillment comes not from fitting in, but from honoring the values that set my soul on fire — learning, creating, writing, inspiring others, and building something meaningful for my family.
Dr. Demartini beautifully reminds us that our voids create our values — the things we feel are missing in our lives become the very areas we’re meant to master. If we’ve felt powerless, we’re meant to rise in strength. If we’ve felt unseen, we’re meant to shine and help others feel seen.
And that realization brought me to tears. Because all the pain, all the struggles I’ve been through — they weren’t punishments. They were preparing me.
Turning Struggles Into Steps Toward Destiny
There’s a part of the book that says our greatest obstacles often carry our greatest blessings. And I couldn’t agree more.
Every heartbreak, every lonely night, every setback has been shaping me into the woman who is brave enough to follow her heart. Even my hardships here in Japan — the moments I felt lost, unseen, or afraid — were not detours; they were directions toward my inspired destiny.
Dr. Demartini’s wisdom reminded me that life is not happening to me, it’s happening for me. That realization alone changed everything.
Now, instead of running away from my challenges, I face them with faith, knowing they are the exact conditions I need to grow into the person I’m meant to be.
Living an Inspired Life Starts with Clarity
The book teaches that if we want to live a fulfilling life, we must get clear about our values and vision.
Ask yourself:
- What do I love learning about the most?
- What inspires me every day?
- What am I naturally drawn to create or do, even without reward?
For me, the answers were simple — I love learning, writing, AI, and building something that empowers others. These are not random interests; they are clues to my purpose.
Dr. Demartini says that when we align our daily actions with our true values, life stops feeling like a struggle and starts feeling like flow. We stop chasing happiness and start living it.
My Takeaway: You Are Already Living Your Purpose, You Just Need to Awaken to It
Before reading this book, I thought living a purposeful life meant waiting for everything to fall into place. Now I realize, it means living intentionally with what you already have, trusting that every step — even the painful ones — is leading you closer to the destiny that was written for you.
If you’re in a chapter of uncertainty like I am, I hope this book reminds you that you are not lost — you are being guided. The life you dream of is not an illusion. It’s your soul’s way of calling you home.
So, take heart. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep trusting your journey. Your inspired destiny is not ahead of you — it’s within you, waiting to be lived.
So, How to Live a Fulfilling and Purposeful Life?
1. Discovering What Truly Matters to You
One of the most powerful truths Dr. Demartini shares is that we are already living according to what we value most—we just don’t always recognize it.
He says fulfillment begins when we identify our highest values—the things that make us feel alive, inspired, and true to ourselves.
For me, that realization was liberating. When I looked at my life, I saw how often I was doing what I “had to do” instead of what I loved to do.
Living in Japan, surrounded by order, structure, and quiet perfection, it’s easy to fall into the pattern of mere survival—going to work, doing errands, fulfilling roles. But fulfillment doesn’t come from routines; it comes from meaning.
So, I started asking myself:
What do I love learning about the most?
What activities make me lose track of time?
What would I still do even if no one paid me for it?
The answers were simple—writing, reading, learning, journaling, and inspiring others through my blog. These weren’t just hobbies; they were my heart speaking to me.
Dr. Demartini says that when we live by our highest values, we naturally awaken our purpose. And once I began aligning my daily actions with what I truly valued, even my ordinary days started to feel sacred.
2. Pain Is Not a Punishment—It’s a Pointer
There’s a line in Inspired Destiny that changed how I see my struggles:
“The challenges you face are the signs that you are growing.”
I used to think my pain meant I was doing something wrong—that maybe I wasn’t good enough or that life was being unfair. But the book taught me that pain is often the compass pointing us toward what needs healing and where we are meant to evolve.
Here in Japan, I’ve had countless nights where I cried quietly while washing dishes or doing chores. Moments when loneliness, financial stress, or emotional exhaustion would take over. But now, I see those tears differently. They are not weaknesses—they are reminders that my heart still beats for something more.
Dr. Demartini explains that our voids become our values. The areas where we feel most incomplete become the exact areas where we are meant to grow and lead. If you’ve felt powerless, you’re called to rise in strength. If you’ve felt unseen, you’re meant to help others feel seen.
That realization hit me so deeply. Every heartbreak, every disappointment, every sleepless night wasn’t breaking me—it was building me.
So, if you’re going through something right now, hold on. The very pain you want to escape might be the path that will lead you home to yourself.
3. Aligning Your Daily Life with Your Inspired Destiny
Living a purposeful life doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a slow, sacred realignment. It’s waking up each day and asking yourself: “Am I doing something today that reflects who I truly am?”
Dr. Demartini emphasizes the importance of setting your life in alignment with your values—because when you live in alignment, you stop feeling like you’re forcing life, and instead, you begin to flow with it.
As for me, I’ve started dedicating a few sacred hours each day to the things that align with my inspired destiny—reading, learning, and blogging. These aren’t just hobbies or random pursuits; they are the tools through which I’m creating the life I’ve always envisioned. With every page I read, every word I write, and every bit of knowledge I gain, I feel like I’m laying the bricks of a future filled with meaning, purpose, and abundance.
It’s not easy, though. Some days I battle exhaustion, doubts, and even the fear of being misunderstood. Sometimes I wonder if people might laugh at my dreams, or if those who know me think I’ve gone too far chasing something they can’t yet see. But as Dr. Demartini reminds us, living your authentic truth—no matter how uncertain or uncomfortable it feels—is the only path to a truly fulfilling life.
So I keep going. Quietly, faithfully, passionately. Because deep in my heart, I know that these small steps are leading me toward the destiny I was born to live—and someday, I’ll look back and realize that every sacrifice, every sleepless night, and every tear was worth it.
And you know what’s beautiful? When you start walking in alignment with your purpose, life starts walking with you. You meet the right people, the right opportunities unfold, and even challenges begin to make sense.
4. The Power of Vision and Gratitude
One of my favorite lessons from Inspired Destiny is that your life becomes what you visualize and appreciate.
Dr. Demartini encourages readers to dream boldly—to envision the life they desire in vivid detail—and to practice gratitude even when life seems far from perfect.
I remember one night, after another day that ended in tears, I took out my dream board and stared at it for a long time. Pictures of success, freedom, my dream home, and my daughters smiling. I whispered to myself, “It’s not over. This is just the chapter before everything changes.”
That night, instead of focusing on what I lacked, I gave thanks for what I had—the roof over my head, the food on our table, the love of my children, and the unshakable faith that somehow, everything I’m going through will lead me closer to my inspired destiny.
That’s what Dr. Demartini’s book reminded me of—gratitude turns despair into hope and ordinary moments into miracles.
5. You Are Meant to Live an Inspired Destiny
At the heart of this book lies one timeless truth:
You are not here by accident. You are here to fulfill a divine purpose.
Every dream you have, every vision that refuses to fade, every tug in your heart—it’s not random. It’s your soul remembering what you came here to do.
Sometimes, we get lost in survival, in expectations, in fear. But deep down, your destiny is still whispering, “I’m here… follow me.”
So, if you’re in a season of uncertainty, please know this:
You are not behind. You are being prepared.
Your pain is shaping your strength.
Your doubts are sharpening your faith.
And your dreams—they are waiting for you to finally believe in them.
As for me, I’ve decided that this chapter of struggle is not my ending—it’s my awakening. The life I’m living now is simply the closing chapter of a story that no longer fits who I’m becoming.
And in the stillness of my nights here in Japan, I’ve realized: I’m not just surviving anymore. I’m rising, learning, and walking towards my inspired destiny—with gratitude in my heart and purpose in my steps.
Live Authentically
Dr. John F. Demartini’s Inspired Destiny is more than a book—it’s a roadmap to living authentically and purposefully. It reminds us that fulfillment doesn’t come from avoiding pain or chasing perfection, but from embracing who we are, learning what we love, and living it boldly every day.
So, whatever season you’re in, remember this: You are not too late, too broken, or too far gone. The very fact that you’re still dreaming means your destiny is still calling.
And when you choose to answer that call—with courage, faith, and love—you begin to live not just a life… but an Inspired Destiny.
